I went on an unplanned hiatus for more than two months. I cannot believe my last post was about my trip to Cebu. That was my birthday post - last MAY! A lot of things have changed: we have a new President, The Hills and Lost are both over, iPhone 4 was already released, and Ricky Martin is out of the closet.
I've been busy with a couple of things - not just work thank God. I feel like a big part of me has been lost and that's blogging. I've recently been updating my other blogs more than Boink! because frankly, my 'real' life has been nothing but uneventful. Here are the updates so far:
1. I lost a dear friend: My very good friend Ilda passed away due to cancer. I still remember how I almost cried like a baby when she told me a doctor gave her only 3 more months to live. She held my hand and asked me, 'Do I look like I only have 3 months left?' I forced a laugh but deep inside I was worried. She went through her rounds of chemo but they just didn't work.
Once in a while I would ask her how's she's doing and she'll always tell me she's doing okay. At one point I thought it was over. She stopped wearing her wig and I always see her at work. I didn't know that she wasn't telling me something. I think she eventually gave up and just spent time with her family. I am sad that I lost another friend. It sure is a big sign of aging - losing friends. Though our friendship was just limited to work and gossip, I will surely miss her and her funny stories and the time we used to spend together at Starbucks at our building and the time we spent as neighbors in Clark.
2. Work has been a little stressful. I know this is probably not the best place to talk about work issues but I just can't help it. I thought after the vacation in Cebu, things would go back to normal. Somehow, it took the turn for the worse and I honestly do not know where it all went wrong. Or when it first went wrong and I missed reading all the signs - now I'm clueless. Anyway, I'm glad something else is keeping me distracted these days. It's not exactly the easiest thing to do when you want to get distracted but it's going to be worth it.
3. My good friend Rafols is leaving for NYC - Okay, here's the story: Her sister quit her job, got an offer to work in New York and somehow she got caught up with all the drama and she ended up getting her own Visa and plane ticket. She's leaving for NYC in two weeks. I totally support my friend although we had to go through a short albeit painful skirmish recently. But it's all done now. I always think some things happen for a reason and maybe there is a reason for this. I need to focus on what I am going to do after she's gone.
Stress is an inevitable part of my existence - and so is overcoming it.